Hold Tight to that Piano!
Yesterday I spent most of the day moving my kid back to college for summer classes. It reminded me a bit of when I moved out (which was actually before I graduated from high school). Somehow I never felt cramped in the room I had when I lived with Mom and Dad. But after I rented my own space, like a zip file, my stuff expanded to fill it with ease.
And so it was with my daughter. However, in the interim between spring and summer classes, my house looked like an apartment had exploded inside it. (Okay, we won’t lay all the blame on her–after all, her fiance’ was staying with us too.) The point is, we were quickly reduced to aisles in a couple of rooms. Which, since we weren’t familiar with that setup, led to many Thud-Crap! moments as one or another of us ran into a laundry basket or tripped over a storage bin.
And the worse part is that I sent even more stuff back with her! (After all, she’s never had a kitchen before now. I mean, we were looking around Target when I suddenly realized, “How are you going to open cans?” After staring at each other blankly for a couple of seconds we burst out laughing and she pulled a can opener off the shelf that looks adorably like a Toucan.)
I figure by the time my girl is ready to get her Master’s she’ll be an old pro at this moving stuff, perhaps nearly as seasoned as Jaz. How about you? How many times have you moved? Any interesting stories to tell related to the trip from old to new?
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May 27th, 2009 at 11:21 pm
I feel kinda left out in this conversation.
I’ve never moved house or helped someone move house. I’ve rearranged my room though! But I don’t think that counts. Dang!
May 28th, 2009 at 2:42 am
I’ve moved more times than I care to count as an adult, but I moved to Australia with two suitcases and a box. My computer was in the box. I left a life time of books and stuff…and every now and then I think “Oh, I’ll just get my…er…wait, I don’t have that anymore.” But mostly I love it. It’s fab. Starting over is brave, and I did it.
May 28th, 2009 at 2:52 am
Moving. OMG. I used to be a Pro at this. I never really stayed in a place long enough to feel comfy.
I was sent from one relative to another when I was growing up (my parents went their own way, gotten married and had kids).
Then a week after I graduated from college, I was sent packing to live on my own. Where I’m from this isn’t normal, families are so tight knit; they live at home until they get married or even after (in some cases).
So anyway, after my Aunt found out that I got a job (I was immediately hired to teach at a Prep School in the area)a week after graduation, I was sent packing.
All I had was my clothes, my shoes and bags.
I rented a flat near work and literally, I had nothing.
I decided to get a can opener, an electric fan, a plate, a bowl, a mug and a pillow.
That was all I had until my next move. My second move included a small television, a cd player and a microwave. I accumulated a lot of other household things.
Third move a bad idea. My mom went to spend the night at my place and found out that I stopped school (I was working on my Master’s) because work was murderous and BILLS, BILLS, BILLS.
She offered to let me stay at her house. Again, a bad idea considering we NEVER had a peaceful relationship— EVER!
Wanting to finish my Master’s, I (stupidly) decided to move in with my mother where 3 of her other kids live (1 was in college, 2 were in High School). I sold the appliances I had and moved to my mother’s. Less than a month after that, I left. My mother and I couldn’t get along even when our lives depended on it.
I lived with a friend for a while until I got myself another place. I ditched the idea that I’ll ever finish Grad School (— I eventually did 4 years later).
After a couple of years, I got engaged then got married. My husband got a job overseas and (we decided that I should) move in with my in-laws. The best decision EVER. I have a great relationship with my in-laws. After a year, I packed my stuff and joined my husband.
That was the last move. Unlike me, my husband had stayed at the same place all his life– up until he was offered the job overseas.
The funny thing is friends STILL call me when they move. They think I’m a whiz at this.
I probably am. =)
May 28th, 2009 at 6:19 am
Well, we only moved once when I was a kid, in 6th grade. I went to college and was in the dorms, but had 3 dorm rooms and 3 roommates the first year (first one dropped out the first semester, the second one moved out shortly after the second semester started!)
I moved off campus for the summer, since I took summer classes, then back on campus in the fall. Then I moved off campus the next summer and stayed at that house til we graduated a year and a half later. A week after graduating, we moved from Wisconsin to Texas, because that is where my husband had found a job (we got married the day after we graduated). We were in an apartment the first 2 years, then bought a house, where we’ve been for 10 1/2 years!
My husband moved around a lot as a kid, so he’s had a lot more moves–he’s the pro!
May 28th, 2009 at 6:49 am
Before I bought a condo last year I moved every two years (5 times since moving to Halifax in 1997). I jumped from one part of the city to another because I was tired of the view out of my window, or the laundry room was not on my floor, or the rent was increased (again) or the room layout was awful (and why I didn’t see that before I moved in, I’ll never know). You’d think I just liked moving or something, but I really don’t. And it’s not like moving is inexpensive, because it always ends up costing you more than you ever thought it would. But now I’m happily settled in to my condo and hope to not move again for a long, long time…or until global warming melts the ice caps and Nova Scotia is sunk beneath the Atlantic. Can I come live with you then?
May 28th, 2009 at 9:43 am
I’ve moved three times. Not really exciting beause they’ve all been in the same city. (Hereford – home to chavs and farmers = fun!)
The second move was only up the road but it was the best fun because we borrowed a friends truck and it was such a nice sunny day! I know about the having TOO much stuff. Every time we move me and my sister change who’s going to have the bigger room (even though i’m older, doesn’t that give me a bit of authority) unfortunetly she got the bigger room this time and it looks like we’re not going to be moving again.
however, i get to move out when i go to University! YAY!!!
x x x x x x
May 28th, 2009 at 10:28 am
I think that by the time I was 18, I had moved about 30 times. My family is part nomad, I guess. The moving didn’t stop when we settled in the Northwest, but about two years into it, I asked my parents when we were leaving. Because, surely, you can’t stay in one place for longer than two years, right?
I stopped counting once I went to college but we can probably add another 10 to that last count. And I’m three weeks away from moving again (and I don’t even know where yet!).
One of the more memorable stories? We were moving to Indiana and coming into town late in the night. It was a warm evening and we had the windows of the car open. Driving slowly down one of the small town roads in the dark, a grasshopper lept in through the passenger window and down by my mother’s feet.
The resultant screams and panic forced us to the side of the road to find the poor grasshopper who was probably more frightened than my mother was at that point.
So, yeah. Hi new neighbors! That screaming woman there? That’s my mom. Nice to meet ya.
May 28th, 2009 at 1:20 pm
Get a refill on your coffee, this might take awhile.
Texas to South Dakota.
South Dakota to Arkansas.
Arkansas to North Carolina.
North Carolina to Pennsylvania.
Hershey PA to Oil City PA.
Oil City Pennsylvania to Montana.
Montana BACK to OC Pennsylvania.
(All of these moves were done before I was 14, with the Hershey to Oil City, then the Oil City to Montana and Montana back to Oil City moves all done within the same year)
Oil City to Greensburg PA. (2001-2002)
Greensburg back to Oil City. (2002-2002)
Oil City to Monessen PA (2002-2002)
Monessen to Adamsburg PA (2002-2002_
Adamsburg to Belle Vernon PA(2002-2003)
Belle Vernon to Hepzibah GA (2003-2003)
Hepzibah to Hinesville GA (2003-present day)
May 28th, 2009 at 1:47 pm
Packing is a talent, one I was blessed with since a young age. If there was an empty box, I would fill it with something because I just felt like it. My mom sews often, thus I tended to pack boxes of fabric my mother collected. I would also pack new groceries into our refrigerator. If you met my brother and saw how much he eats, you would understand “packing” a fridge.
It probably began when I first went camping on a Girl Scout trip when I was still in elementary school. One learned how to pack a backpack to the brim with all the essentials and how to put together a bed roll in your sleeping bag! Since then I have camped nearly 15 times, I am now 21 years of age.
Moving wise, I’ve lived in the same house since birth. However, I moved to live in the residence halls on campus when I started college. I have lived in 4 different dorms over the course of 3 years including summers. This summer is my first one back home and it is definitely different. I have my own space!! But living and moving in dorms taught me how to pack up my life into as few boxes possible. Moving in the heat of a Florida summer is no fun! I’ve got it down to a science though: it takes just 1 trip of packing my car to the brim!
In the fall, I will be living in my first apartment as a senior. I will be living in the largest space I have ever lived in. Then one I graduate, a friend and I are moving to Seattle. But I’m one of these people who loves to travel and I plan to move around the country for a few year. Then permanently move to Ireland.
I have a lot of moving to look forward to!
May 28th, 2009 at 1:58 pm
I did a count up, and realised I’ve moved 14 times!!!!!! We moved a few times when I was a kid. Left home at 18 with my dog and all my stuff to go flatting and have never gone back. Have moved islands since then as well. The 8 1/2 years we spent in the last place was the longest I’ve ever lived anywhere. Mind you we New Zealanders do tend to move around, espically as students and the first 3 or 4 years after graduating.
May 28th, 2009 at 5:34 pm
Ive moved 13 times in 18yrs!
May 28th, 2009 at 6:08 pm
I have moved PLENTY of times. Cities, provinces (Canadian version of states
), houses, everything.
I have lived in this city for 3 years and have had that many apartments.
The fun story-kinda-was when we moved here.
My boyfriend and I were at a punk rock show, having a few, when, in the middle of December, 2 weeks before Christmas, we decided we hated the city.
Within 12 hours, we had packed, bought our tickets and were on the greyhound, where we would spend 3 days going across Canada.
I quit my job as the bus was pulling out of the station.
I called my parents-who I still sort of lived with-a few hours out.
They did, eventually, forgive me.
xo
May 28th, 2009 at 8:05 pm
That’s actually probably a good thing, Bec. Many of us call it stability. Wistfully.
You took the words right outta my mouth, Mel. Very adventurous of you!
Wowsa, Summer. Eloquence escapes me. Consider yourself hugged.
You sound kinda like my son, Andie, who only remembers moving once (though he did as an infant) when he was six, from a rental house to an owner house. Boy was he pissed. Off. Nothing could convince him the new place could improve on the old. Then we got through a winter without freezing our butts off. Sold!
You’re certainly welcome, Zita. Just be warned, most of the Americans now living on the east and west coasts will probably get here before you!
Well, Emzie-pooh, when you get your own place, all you have to do is make your sister sleep on the sofa-bed. Revenge is sweet sayeth the Jennifer!
Wow, Shannon, that’s definitely an interesting welcome to a new town!
There’s gotta be something special about Oil City, Marissa, it pops up so often on your list. Lemme guess…
they have a Drive-In movie theater?
How exciting is that move to Ireland gonna be, DeDe? You go!!
Good to know, Penny. Americans seem to move a bunch too. (Not always for the best reasons. But maybe I won’t get into that here!)
That’s a lot o’moving Samantha!
I would definitely call that seat-of-the-pants living Andais! Hope it was fun!
May 29th, 2009 at 12:18 am
Geez! dont u guys evr stay in one place? the only move i ever had was when i was 2 and i dont even remember my mum bilding the house we live in now. brilliant job to.
but then again im not as anuanly experianced as u all r!
May 29th, 2009 at 5:08 am
I’m currently 18 and I have only moved once 8 years ago, and I loved it. I think we have a family trait of traveling, or wanderlust as my mother calls it. This is as my Great-grandfather,granfather, and mother have done some insane travels and not just around one country. My mother over a period of ten years moved around to different countries getting a job, staying for a while and working, then moving on. Infact I was a hair-breaths away from having a dual-nationality from being born in Australia, unfortunatley I’m just standard British.
My first solo move should be coming up soon as, hopefully, I should be going to Canterbury for uni.
May 29th, 2009 at 6:39 am
I’ve live in the same house since January 1985, I was 4. So I haven’t ever had to endure the fun that is moving.
I’m dreading when I finally bite the bullet and move out…but alas, right now, I just can’t afford to live on my own.
I live with my mother and 17 year old brother…paitence is a virtue, I’m failing miserably.
May 29th, 2009 at 6:53 am
LOL, Jade. I think my grandma only moved three times in the ninety years she was alive. Once from the house her father built into a rental (same city). Once back into that same house. And once into a very nice assisted living complex a few years after my grandpa died (different city). I’ve moved nine times with another one planned in the next few years, and I’m only half her age. So I guess you never know where life will lead you! (My fave moving story was the last one, when we came to our present house. I have an upright grand piano that was made in 1908. It weighs probably 600 pounds. My hubby was coaching football back then, so he had about ten of his players show up, and it took every one of them packed around that piano to shuffle it out the doorway of the old house and into the new one. Lots of grunting, ordering each other around–but no swearing with Coach right there to overhear them!)
Have fun in uni, Caitlin! It can be such a wonderful experience if you let it!
Hang in there, Emma. Your time will come!
May 29th, 2009 at 7:23 am
Yea it is alot of moving!
We moved alot after my Papa got cancer & died. Then my mom went to work as a manager for Wal-Mart & they transferd her ALOT!
I dont plan on moving again if I can help it, mom is just going to have to deal with me for the rest of our lives LOL!
May 29th, 2009 at 9:02 am
I’ve moved 10 times. All of them in the first 18 years of my life! I also went to 5 Infant schools (ages 5-11, not sure what that equates to in American)
I hate moving, it’s stressful, time consuming and generally a pain in the a**e!
Hopeing to only move one more time so that we have enough space to accommodate my daughter and her ever growing collection of toddler crap – dame those kids need so much stuff!!!
May 29th, 2009 at 10:15 am
Worst thing about moving… Every time I move something gets lost. I’ll cry if I list it all as I’ve moved about 23 times in 27 years. So’s life I guess. But fun thing is getting itchy feet in spring.
May 29th, 2009 at 10:37 am
It’s where I ended up growing up, LOL. Went to high school there, and my family is still there.
May 30th, 2009 at 1:44 am
I haven’t moved much, but we are in the process of moving out right now!
My parents just signed a contract on the house and we’ve got about 20 days to move.
I like moving, though. (:
It’s fun.
May 30th, 2009 at 9:04 am
LOL!!
I’ve only moved once. My grandparents lived in the same house since they got married in the 1950s. Before them it had been a pub and then a corner sweet shop since the 1800s. In 2007 the city council decided that the area was too old now and they were going to demolish it all and rebuild new houses. We were forced to move into a much smaller house at christmas that year. I’m happy that we actually have a garden now, because all we had was a 2m x 4m brick yard before, but I miss having space to walk through my own bedroom.
But, anyway, because the economic situation got worse they didn’t demolish the houses after all. They’re just sitting there, blocked off, and looking a complete mess. The houses further down the street were demolished and only half rebuilt and now they’re just sitting there.